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During the tapping process, the obvious question to ask your client is “What are you feeling?”, or “How are you feeling?”. Practitioners from a counselling background often default to this kind of question. While this is an obvious question to ask because our clients are often feeling…

Unless you have a super human memory, you probably take notes of your client sessions. Among other things, you need to remember who they are, what they want to work on and what progress they are making. Most practitioners do this by taking notes, but…

Tapping is a great tool for defusing unhelpful emotions or stuck states, all you need to know is what to tap on! In some cases this is really obvious, we, or our clients, know the pain points, and it’s easy to bring tapping to bear…

How many of us have made a decision that we later regretted? It’s hard to make good decisions, maybe we don’t think things through, or our emotional state at that moment compels us to make decisions we later regret. How we feel at the moment…

On a good day, our clients tell us exactly what is going on with them in a way that makes it easy to tap. They might say things like: “I’m so angry”, or “I feel lonely”, or “No one listens to me” These are straightforward, clear descriptions of…

Make The Abstract Concrete 28 July 2025·8 mins Image by ANDRI TEGAR MAHARDIKA from Pixabay Abstract (adjective): – existing as an idea, feeling, or quality, not as a material object. When our clients come to us, they describe their problems so that we can try to help them,…

Image by maryannandco from Pixabay If you desire to dig a well to reach water, your efforts are more fruitful if you dig one 100-foot-deep hole than if you dig ten holes each 10 feet deep. – Dan Millman Have you ever had a client that doesn’t seem…

Image by THỌ VƯƠNG HỒNG from Pixabay What does mentoring / supervision mean to you? Is it: Being a practitioner is a lonely business; it’s just you and your client, trying to do the best you can in the moment with whatever the client brings. As well as…

95% of our problems talk back – Anonymous Think of someone you don’t get on well with. Just imagine for a moment that they are there with you right now. What happens? Did your stomach drop and your heart sink? You are not alone. In 1988…

It’s an irony that your client has been brought to you by their conscious mind, while the problems they bring are usually happening at an unconscious level. People are used to trying to think their way out of problems because their thinking mind thinks it…