EFT Level 1 Training – September 2018 – Newcastle Upon Tyne

Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), also known as ‘Tapping’, is a simple, yet very effective, healing process that uses your body’s built in stress relief system.

By tapping with your fingertips on the ends of acupuncture meridians you can reduce, or eliminate, all types of negative emotions including fears, anger, phobias, grief, traumatic memories, stress and anxiety.

Learning EFT/Tapping at these workshops may be helpful for people who:

  • suffer from stress – they can feel as if life is getting too much for them and they are struggling to cope with their emotional challenges.
  • experience anxiety – they might find that simple experiences trigger unnecessary fear or apprehension.
  • are upset by unhappy memories – they find that there are some memories that they just can’t let go of, even remembering them is distressing and stressful.
  • have unwanted emotional reactions to people or situations – they may react to situations or people in ways that they don’t like but feel unable to change.
  • feel that their emotions are out of control – it’s as if their emotions have a mind of their own, no matter what they do they still feel bad when they think they shouldn’t.
  • have a busy or troubled mind – they go over difficult memories or imaginings time after time, getting nowhere but feeling bad about it.
  • want ways to manage cravings – they would like not to have to struggle to resist chocolate, cigarrettes, wine, junk TV and many other unwanted temptations.
  • would like to treat common aches and pains– they want a simple technique that help them ease their own physical discomforts.
  • would like more peace of mind – they just want to be more comfortable in their body and mind.

If that sounds like you this two-day AAMET EFT Level 1 Foundations Training is designed to give you a thorough introduction to EFT and give you the skills and confidence to use it in everyday life

The training includes:

  • An introduction to the history and principles of EFT.
  • How to use EFT to take the stress and distress out of everyday problems.
  • How to neutralise unpleasant memories with EFT.
  • Using EFT to ease cravings and sooth physical discomfort.
  • How to use EFT in daily life to be less stressed and more effective.

Important: These EFT Level 1 Training courses are designed to show you how to use EFT to relieve your own issues and to do simple work with family and friends. This is not a substitute for personal therapy, nor will it train you to be an EFT therapist in your own right, though you may use the certificate to attend an EFT Level 2 course for further training.

The course includes a full manual and all training materials. At the end of the training day you will receive an AAMET EFT Level 1 Attendance Certificate which is required if you want to progress to the EFT Level 2 training to add EFT to your professional tool box.

This training is fully self-contained and open to all, after attending you will be able to use EFT confidently for a variety of issues. If you want to go further, developing your EFT skills for working with other people, it serves as the foundation for the Level 2 / AAMET EFT Practitioner course.


The Early Bird fee of £135 ends at midnight 3rd August 2018.
Thereafter, the Full fee is £195 (there are only 8 places available on this training).

EFT Cafe – 13th June 2018 – Tapping Into And With Intention

Intention TappingI’ve just come back from a four day workshop with Steve Wells the creator of Intention Energy Processes or Intention Tapping. I was knocked out by how fast and versatile these processes are for shifting stuck and hard to work with difficulties.

Intention Tapping is a very different way of using tapping processes to work with the challenges (aka problems) in our lives.

Rather than addressing the problem itself, IEP works to dissolve our attachment to the emotional stuff that causes many of our difficulties.

It’s fast, it’s simple and it allows your unconscious mind to do most of the work.

In this month’s EFT Cafe, Andy Hunt will demonstrate the basics of IEP and how you can use it to let go of stuff you no longer need to carry. The EFT Cafe is on Wednesday 13th June from 7pm to 9pm at St Oswald’s Hospice Education Centre, Gosforth, Newcastle upon Tyne and costs just £10.

EFT Cafe – 9th May 2018 – Foursquare Tapping

Most of us want to be different.

We want what we don’t have and we have what we don’t and those two things seem a long way apart.

We feel like we have ‘bad’ qualities that we don’t like and want to get rid of and good qualities that we admire and want for ourselves.

We might feel lazy and want to be disciplined, selfish and want to be grateful, reserved and want to be more enthusiastic, but if we want to be more disciplined, grateful or enthusiastic why don’t we just do that?

What is holding us back and what can we do about it?

In this month’s EFT Cafe Andy Hunt introduces Foursquare tapping a process for exploring and changing the pros and cons of change.

The EFT Cafe is on from 7pm – 9pm at St Oswald’s Hospice Education centre on Wednesday 9th May.

Tapping For More Freedom

Not in controlAs adults we can make decisions and cause things to happen, we have the ability to be ‘at cause’ in our lives.

Being ‘at cause’ means we are resourceful, capable and able to act to influence our lives and we know that we can influence the course of our lives.

But sometimes, we might feel as though we are at the mercy of events or other people, things happen to us and there is nothing we can do to influence our lives. In other words we are ‘at effect’ in our lives.

When we are ‘at effect’ the world does things to us and we can’t change anything. Other people and circumstances control our lives, we might feel we are powerless and can’t influence what happens to us. We are a hostage to other people and circumstances.

Some of the symptoms of being at effect are:

  • Feeling like a victim of circumstances or other people.
  • Being passive, waiting for someone else to get things moving
  • Needing permission from other people to take action.

Being at effect can also show up in how we speak.

  • “There is nothing I can do until they ….”
  • “My family run my life”.
  • “I have to wait until they …”
  • “I need my mother’s approval”
  • “I can’t move on until he apologises for what he did”
  • “I am a coach and I’m waiting for new clients to ask me for the help they need, but they never show up.”
  • etc

When we hear other people (or ourselves) say things like this it indicates that they are ‘at effect’ in this area of their lives. They are telling us that someone else is responsible for how they think and feel and what they do.

Being at effect is a good way to keep chronic emotional problems going indefinitely. If you make other people or circumstances the cause of your problem there is nothing that you can do to change things because they are in control. If they have to change for you to get better, you could be in for a very long and probably unhappy wait.

By now you might be thinking that some people [insert favourite oppressor here] really are causing you physical or emotional distress. It’s true, there are certainly limits and constraints in the physical world and there are people using and abusing power in our social and political worlds. However, all those factors make themselves known through our subjective personal experience. How we respond to them will affect our experience of them and how we choose to act.

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
– Viktor Frankl – concentration camp survivor.

Liberté, égalité, fraternité … or not!

The French national motto: Liberté, égalité, fraternité – freedom, equality and fraternity – describes the state of being at cause.

  • Liberty: Having the freedom to act
  • Equality: Having as much power and influence as everyone else
  • Fraternity: Being in a state of goodwill, wanting the best for ourselves and others without impinging on their freedom or equality.

Being at effect is the opposite.

  • Constraint: Feeling boxed in by real or imaginary limitations.
  • Powerlessness: The other people or circumstances have, or seem to have, all the power.
  • Vulnerablity: The people holding the power do not have your interests at heart or may even be hostile towards you.

What can we do to change this?

Fortunately you don’t need to storm the Bastille or behead members of the nobility to reclaim some of your personal freedom, equality and fraternity.

Stepping out of the predicament

One of the problems of being at effect is that if you are in that predicament it can be quite hard to spot, because this may be the ‘normal’ state of affairs for you and you are on the inside of the problem looking out.

It’s hard to read the label if you are inside the jar!

One way of getting outside the jar is to work with a skilled practitioner who is able to see and hear when you are at effect and help you work through it.

Another way to is using drawing to create a tappable metaphor.

All you need a piece of paper and pencil and the willingness to do some tapping.

If you started to panic when I mentioned drawing … relax … this isn’t art school! You do not need to be able to create a Rembrandt or Van Goch of your situation to get the benefit. A simple diagram with stick figures will work really well.

Here’s the kind of diagram that I use:

As you can see Leonardo Da Vinci has nothing to fear from me.

This process consists of two parts:

  1. Defusing the situation, identifying the stress and distress in that situation and resolving it with tapping. Clearing the feelings and beliefs that hold you at effect.
  2. Infusing resources that will help you be different in that situation. After the stress and distress has been soothed it’s much easier to tap for the resources that would help you handle things differently.


WARNING: If your being ‘at effect’ is the result of historical or continuing trauma and abuse you need to work with that first. Find a practitioner who knows how to work with these kinds of issues and resolve them before you consider using this process

This process can be used for everyday situations where you feel ‘at effect’ in your life.

Part 1: Defusing The Situation

  1. Pick a situation in which you feel you are ‘at effect’
  2. Take a piece of paper, divide it in half. On one half draw a stick figure diagram of yourself (at effect) and the other half the person or persons (at cause)
  3. On the ‘your half’ list all the qualities and feelings of the stick figure of yourself in that situation. For example:
    1. “she is very small”
    2. “she has her head in her hands”
    3. “she doesn’t feel safe”
    4. “she is in the dark”
    5. etc
  4. On the other side of the paper write a list of all the qualities of that person / those people / the circumstances that affect you. For example:
    1. “they don’t care”
    2. “they are looking the other way”
    3. “they are not interested”
    4. etc
  5. Tap for the ‘at effect’ you, using tapping in the third person to process all the qualities of that you. †
    1. “Even though she is very small, I deeply and completely accept her … she is very small”
    2. “Even though she has her head in her hands, I deeply and completely accept her … she has her head in her hands”
    3. etc
  6. Check the page to see if there are any signs of stress and distress – do more processing if necessary.
  7. When all the stress and distress has been soothed, ask yourself the question “What would it be like to be that me in that situation, now?”

† Important: One of the reasons for drawing a representation of yourself is to help you step back from the problem and look at yourself as if you were another person. From this detached perspective it’s much easier to see what is going on.

Your stick figure self now becomes your stand-in and when you tap you formulate the tapping as if it was for someone else. Rather than tapping on “Even though I am very small … etc”, you tap on “Even though she is very small … etc”. You could think of it as surrogate tapping for yourself.

Now that the stress and distress in the situation has been defused you can move on to the second part

Part 2: Infusing Resources

  1. Look at the ‘you’ in the picture.
  2. What does that ‘you’ need to be more capable?
    1. Emotions – what feelings do they need – e.g. courage, acceptance, determination, etc
    2. Capabilities – what abilities would help them – e.g. the ability to speak up, the ability to stand firm.
  3. Write a list of resources that ‘s/he’ needs. For example
    1. courage
    2. confidence
    3. the ability to speak up
    4. etc
  4. For each resource use the following tapping sequence based on Paradoxical Tapping to work with that ‘you’
    1. Tapping on the eyebrow point “In how many different ways could s/he be more [resource]”
    2. Silent tapping on all other points
    3. For example:
      1. “In how many different ways could she have more courage”
      2. “In how many different ways could she feel more confidence”
      3. “In how many different ways could she speak up for herself”
      4. etc
  5. When you have the feeling that the ‘other you’ has been resourced, ask the question: “What would it be like to be that me in that situation now?” ‡

‡ At the start of the process you distanced yourself from ‘that you’ and the situation by drawing the picture. This allowed you to tap out the distress on behalf of that ‘other you’ and then resource that you so they could be more resourceful in that situation.

The question at the end: “What would it be like to be that me in that situation now?” causes you to ‘re-occupy’ that resourced self and imagine being in that situation. It helps you get back into yourself.

As always I hope you find this useful, please leave a comment or get in touch if you have any questions.

EFT Cafe – 11th April 2018 – Tapping To Have More Control In Your Life

Not in controlHumans have agency, we can make decisions and cause things to happen, in other words we can be ‘at cause’ in our lives.

Being at cause means we are resourceful, capable and able to act to influence our lives and we know that we are. We feel that we are able to influence the outcome of our lives.

On the other hand if we feel we are ‘at effect’ the world does things to us and we can’t change anything. Other people and circumstances control our lives, we might feel we have no agency and can’t influence what happens to us.

In this state of learned helplessness we feel powerless to change anything, we are a hostage to other people and circumstances.

Being at effect can show up in our language when people say things like this:

  • There is nothing I can do until they ….
  • My family run my life.
  • I have to wait until they …
  • etc

In this month’s EFT Cafe  Andy Hunt will demonstrate a tapping process that helps us reclaim our agency so we can exert more influence and control on our lives. The EFT Cafe is on Wednesday 11th April from 7pm to 9pm at St Oswald’s Hospice Education Centre, Gosforth, Newcastle upon Tyne

Are You Living In A State Of Emotional Apartheid?

Apartheid“You’ve got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
And latch on to the affirmative
Don’t mess with Mister In-Between”
– Johnny Mercer

In our culture positive thinking (and feeling) is highly prized.

We often describe our thinking and emotions as positive or negative, but this way of thinking and talking about them can set us up for a lot of suffering.

Our emotions are our internal signals and motivators, helping us to navigate our world. They are innate, part of the human package, tuned and refined over millions of years of evolution.

Categorising them as positive or negative can have a powerful effect on how we view them and how we experience them.

Read moreAre You Living In A State Of Emotional Apartheid?

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